Boston is a great city for trans individuals thanks to its protective laws and open-minded community.
However, meeting trans people here can still be challenging due to the lack of LGBTQ+ spots.
Luckily, there are still some specific night venues, support groups, and online forums that can make the process easier.
So join us as we shed light on these inclusive spaces and discuss the best ways to meet trans men and women in Boston.
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List of TG Friendly Venues in Boston
1. Bars and Clubs
The LGBT+ nightlife of Boston isn’t as exciting as other U.S cities and sadly, it only offers a few decent options for trans folks.
So if you’re trying to find TG bars and clubs then here’s a list of spots you can try visiting.
Club Café – While this place caters strongly to cis gay men, you can often find trans folks. Plan your visit on the weekends or on Monday, when they host their drag bingo night.
Trophy Room –You’ll predominantly find a gay/lesbian crowd here as well. But it’s possible to encounter a few trans individuals on the weekends due to the lack of variety in the city.
Midway Café – If you prefer a more laid-back atmosphere then Midway Café is a nice place. They often invite trans performers to their live music shows so keep an eye on the event calendar.
Jacques’ Cabaret – A popular spot for bachelorette parties and easily the best bar to meet transgender people in Boston. As you can see, they also host incredible drag shows between 8 pm to 10 pm…
2. Community Centers and Organizations
Sadly, Boston does not have a proper LGBT+ community center, but there are many organizations that host support/social groups for TGs.
One of them is Fenway Health, and even though they’re mainly known for providing trans healthcare services, they also host weekly programs.
Another popular organization is Boston Area Trans Support, better known as BATS.
It’s a support group for trans and non-binary folks. But in order to join their meetings, you must submit a form on their website.
There’s also TCNE, a social and support group for transgender individuals and their allies.
They host monthly workshops and get-togethers so keep an eye on their calendar.
And if you’re into sports then also check out Stonewall Sports. They host a ton of LGBT+ sports activities in Boston which can be great for meeting trans men and women.
3. Online Groups and Pages
There are plenty of online communities dedicated to trans folks in Boston.
I’ll start with none other than Boston Trans, a support group that not only welcomes trans and GNC individuals but also allies of the community.
Another community is Trans Exchange. It’s a space for only TG and non-binary people.
They sometimes organize events and you can find info about upcoming meetups through the group.
Then there’s Transgender People and Their Admirers. The name pretty much explains the purpose of the group.
But even if they allow allies, what I like about them is that they’re quick to remove transphobic members.
Moving on, there’s also Boston LGBT Events and Queer Exchange. The latter is a fairly large community that acts as a social hub and also serves other purposes like buying/selling and offering general help.
Lastly, I’d also recommend checking out Meetup.com as it has a lot of trans dating/social groups in Boston.
4. Trans Dating Sites
There aren’t too many night venues in Boston, so trans folks naturally use online dating sites to find friends, partners, and even hookups.
And I know, this doesn’t sound great, but based on my experience, Tinder has a lot of trans individuals.
But trans women, in particular, don’t feel comfortable with revealing their gender identity on the app because we’re often fetishized by cis men.
So it might require some trial and error before you finally find the right match.
If you’re looking for a more straightforward approach then you can also hop on to TSDates.
Most users there are pretty open about their trans status, but just a heads up that the site is mainly used for casual stuff.
What It’s Like to Be Transgender in Boston
Trans individuals can have an incredible life in Boston. The city is safe and its people are also welcoming.
But one of my biggest complaints is that it’s LGBT+ nightlife sucks.
It only has a few bars centered around our community. But hey, that’s the reason the local TG folks here have taken matters into their own hands.
There are a ton of trans block parties hosted every month, especially in neighborhoods like Jamaica Plain.
It has a sizable LGBT+ population and the living cost in the area is also quite affordable.
So, if you’re a trans person or identify anywhere on the gender non-conforming spectrum, consider Jamaica Plain as the ideal place to call home.
Wrapping Up: Enjoy Meeting Trans in Boston
Without a doubt, Boston is a great city to live in for trans individuals, but I can’t say the same for its social scene.
It had a decent variety before the pandemic, but now, things have just gone downhill.
Your options for night venues are pretty limited and you’ll mainly have to rely on support groups and online dating sites and forums.
And while certain neighborhoods like Jamaica Plains do host TG focused parties, they can be hard to get into if you don’t live in the area.
Fortunately, you’ll often find trans people at workplaces so if you have an office job then that certainly makes things easier.
As I conclude, I hope that the methods highlighted here will help you in your journey to connect with trans individuals in Boston. Best of luck!
